Episode 10: The Violence of Self-Improvement

May 19, 2026

Getting this episode recorded and out was like pulling teeth, but here we are. We couldn't let this question go unanswered, it's that good. A listener asked, "I'm sober, but finding myself shopping, scrolling, and using food as a way to fill that void where alcohol was, how do you (Laura and Eric) feel about this?"

Laura McKowen, Founder of The Luckiest Club, and Eric Johnson CEO of The Luckiest Club, talk about their own experiences with transfer addictions and some guidelines that might help listeners understand if their habits are a problem.

They also talk about how there can be harm in the need to constantly seek self-improvement.

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Episode 9: How Do I Talk About My Sobriety?